Welcome all new ladies!!!
This section is meant specifically for the new ladies on the board so they can get to know what it's like.
First is some board etiquette. These things aren't laws by theknot.com for the message boards, but it is appreciated if it is followed.
--Introduce yourself!
When newcomer's get on the board it can often be confusing when they post randomly. A little introduction about you and you wedding is great! Things to help you along: Your name as well as your fiancee, where you are from, your wedding date, your vision for your wedding, and where you are in the planning process
--Lingo!
There is a lot of acronyms being used on the board (all boards) so learning them can be very helpful when reading and replying to posts. Further down the page you will find a list.
--Dirty Deletes
This is deleting a thread you've started without prior notice to the ladies on the board. This usually happens when someone asks for help/advice and they don't like the response they are getting. No one likes dirty deletes because the usual girls on the board feel as if they're wasting their time helping someone with their advice and it could've been helpful to multiple knotties wondering the same questions but just didn't ask yet.
--Knottie Disclaimer
This will be something you will see just about on everyone's planning bio or blog. If you see a picture on a planning bio or blog and you want to save it to put in yours, please either ask for their permisson or give them credit in you bio when you put the picture in by saying something to the effect of "credit to (person's screen name) for this picture"
--One more thing!
Ladies, please remember this a world-wide board and anyone with internet access can read what you have posted about. Please don't post personal information as there have been instances in the past where someone has used too much personal info and have had their venue or vendors cancelled. We really want this to refrain from happening so use protection!
In addition please read the FAQ page please, it will be helpful for the future!
Universal Knot Lingo:
AW Attention Whore
BC, BCP Birth Control, Birth Control Pills
BF Boyfriend or Best Friend
BFF Best Friend Forever
BM Bridesmaid or Best Man
BP Bridal Party
BTW By The Way
C&P Copy and Paste
DD Dirty Delete
DF Dear Fiance
DH Darling Husband
DW Destination Wedding
E-ring Engagement Ring
E-party Engagement Party
FG Flower Girl
FI Fiance
FIL Father-In-Law
FILs Future In-Laws
FBIL Future Brother-In-Law
FFIL Future Father-In-Law
FMIL Future Mother-In-Law
FSIL Future Sister-In-Law
F/U Follow Up
FWIW For What It's Worth
GBCK Goodbye Cruel Knot
GBCN Goodbye Cruel Nest
GF Girlfriend
GM Groomsmen
GTG Knottie Get Together
HM Honeymoon
HTH Hope This Helps
IHO In Honor Of
ILs In-Laws
IMHO In My Humble Opinion
IMNSHO In My Not So Humble Opinion
JK Just Kidding/Joking
JP/JOP Justice of the Peace
LMAO Laugh My Ass Off
LOL Laughing Out Loud
LTBM Living Together Before Marriage
MIL Mother-In-Law
MOH Maid/Matron of Honor
MUD Made-Up Drama
NBR Not Board Related
NFT No Further Text
NH New Husband
NMS Not My Style
NWR Not Wedding Related
OMG Oh My God!
OOT Out of Town
P&E Planning and Etiquette Board
PIB Pictures In Bio
PIP Picture in Post
PSA Public Service Announcement
RB Ring Bearer
RD Rehearsal Dinner
RP Repost
ROTFL Rolling On The Floor Laughing
SAHM Stay-At-Home Mom
SAHW Stay-At-Home Wife
SAHD Stay-At-Home Dad
SC Siggy Challenge
STDs Save-The-Date Cards
SWR Sort of Wedding Related
TK The Knot
TIA Thanks In Advance
TMI Too Much Information
TN The Nest
TOM Time of Month
TY Thank You
WP Wedding Party
WR Wedding Related
WTF What The F*ck
WTH What The Hell
WW Weight Watchers
YGM You Got Mail
First is some board etiquette. These things aren't laws by theknot.com for the message boards, but it is appreciated if it is followed.
--Introduce yourself!
When newcomer's get on the board it can often be confusing when they post randomly. A little introduction about you and you wedding is great! Things to help you along: Your name as well as your fiancee, where you are from, your wedding date, your vision for your wedding, and where you are in the planning process
--Lingo!
There is a lot of acronyms being used on the board (all boards) so learning them can be very helpful when reading and replying to posts. Further down the page you will find a list.
--Dirty Deletes
This is deleting a thread you've started without prior notice to the ladies on the board. This usually happens when someone asks for help/advice and they don't like the response they are getting. No one likes dirty deletes because the usual girls on the board feel as if they're wasting their time helping someone with their advice and it could've been helpful to multiple knotties wondering the same questions but just didn't ask yet.
--Knottie Disclaimer
This will be something you will see just about on everyone's planning bio or blog. If you see a picture on a planning bio or blog and you want to save it to put in yours, please either ask for their permisson or give them credit in you bio when you put the picture in by saying something to the effect of "credit to (person's screen name) for this picture"
--One more thing!
Ladies, please remember this a world-wide board and anyone with internet access can read what you have posted about. Please don't post personal information as there have been instances in the past where someone has used too much personal info and have had their venue or vendors cancelled. We really want this to refrain from happening so use protection!
In addition please read the FAQ page please, it will be helpful for the future!
Universal Knot Lingo:
AW Attention Whore
BC, BCP Birth Control, Birth Control Pills
BF Boyfriend or Best Friend
BFF Best Friend Forever
BM Bridesmaid or Best Man
BP Bridal Party
BTW By The Way
C&P Copy and Paste
DD Dirty Delete
DF Dear Fiance
DH Darling Husband
DW Destination Wedding
E-ring Engagement Ring
E-party Engagement Party
FG Flower Girl
FI Fiance
FIL Father-In-Law
FILs Future In-Laws
FBIL Future Brother-In-Law
FFIL Future Father-In-Law
FMIL Future Mother-In-Law
FSIL Future Sister-In-Law
F/U Follow Up
FWIW For What It's Worth
GBCK Goodbye Cruel Knot
GBCN Goodbye Cruel Nest
GF Girlfriend
GM Groomsmen
GTG Knottie Get Together
HM Honeymoon
HTH Hope This Helps
IHO In Honor Of
ILs In-Laws
IMHO In My Humble Opinion
IMNSHO In My Not So Humble Opinion
JK Just Kidding/Joking
JP/JOP Justice of the Peace
LMAO Laugh My Ass Off
LOL Laughing Out Loud
LTBM Living Together Before Marriage
MIL Mother-In-Law
MOH Maid/Matron of Honor
MUD Made-Up Drama
NBR Not Board Related
NFT No Further Text
NH New Husband
NMS Not My Style
NWR Not Wedding Related
OMG Oh My God!
OOT Out of Town
P&E Planning and Etiquette Board
PIB Pictures In Bio
PIP Picture in Post
PSA Public Service Announcement
RB Ring Bearer
RD Rehearsal Dinner
RP Repost
ROTFL Rolling On The Floor Laughing
SAHM Stay-At-Home Mom
SAHW Stay-At-Home Wife
SAHD Stay-At-Home Dad
SC Siggy Challenge
STDs Save-The-Date Cards
SWR Sort of Wedding Related
TK The Knot
TIA Thanks In Advance
TMI Too Much Information
TN The Nest
TOM Time of Month
TY Thank You
WP Wedding Party
WR Wedding Related
WTF What The F*ck
WTH What The Hell
WW Weight Watchers
YGM You Got Mail